Hunt For Better Ways Of Doing Things

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Hunt For Better Ways Of Doing Things

Your targets/goals for 2017 will not come to fruition if you don’t change the way you think and your attitude towards the way you use your time.

As once said by Albert Einstein, insanity doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

There was a way you did things in 2016, and you know the outcomes it produced. If you want different outcomes this year, you must alter your methods.

You have to fish for new strategies and ideas. You have to hunt for better ways of doing things. I repeat, if you really want your 2017 outcomes to be different from that of 2016, you must at all cost change somethings
This year could be the year it all happens or goes right for you. But the YOU here must be different from the YOU of previous years.

So don’t stop reviewing your thought patterns as well your habits. Always remember that you cannot become the true success you were created to be without successful habits.

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Be good to yourself. Do something for you for a change.

Be good to yourself. Do something for you for a change. Give yourself a special treat. Do something that brings you a sense of joy ~ either spending time alone or with someone…or doing something that you like, that excites you. Ask yourself some thought provoking questions that will help the next chapter be the best chapter of your life.

What are three things that I can do each day that can make me proud of myself? What are five things am I grateful for? What does the next chapter of my life look like? What do I want at this point in my life? What makes me happy?

Give yourself permission to check out from all the things that could possibly stress and worry you. Allow yourself the time to reconnect with yourself, your heart and your spirit. You have one precious life. Make it a point to actually enjoy it. Live it. Because you have something special in you.

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Failure is not a destination. It is an invitation to unforeseen victories.

Failure is not a destination. It is an invitation to unforeseen victories. Someone once said that a person who has never failed, has never done anything. Make failure your vitamin. When you fall, especially when it hurts, be willing to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back in the game. You are not competing against anyone, not even yourself. Life is not a sprint; it is a marathon. Are you in it to win it?

Reject your fears. Fear is just an emotion, nothing more. It can not hurt you, but it can stop you from achieving your goals if you let it. Face your fears head on, instead. Embrace each moment that you feel you “blew it.” Remember, it is just a memory. The past only exists in your mind. You have the absolute power to release it. There is a fundamental difference between failure and temporary defeat. Be willing to fail your way to success! You have not failed. You have merely graduated into a brand new opportunity to manifest the Greatness.

Refuse to be a spectator of life. Refuse to be a victim of circumstances. Refuse to sit on the sidelines. Get in the game! Liberate yourself from the prison of your mind. Say yes to life, yes to your dream, yes to your future. Say yes to possibilities! You have a dream. Go for it! Yes! It will not be easy. No one said it will. But you have what it takes to pull through! Make it happen or it’s not going to happen! You can do it. I

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Whose Life Are We REALLY Living… Our Own or Someone Else’s?

Some folks find it hard, even impossible, to set goals. It’s not because they don’t have ambition or drive. It’s not because they are lazy. It’s because they have NO idea what they really desire in life. They’ve lost touch with their dreams. Ask them what they want, and they’ll reply, “I don’t know!”

Now before we dismiss these people — or ourselves — as clueless, remember: the voices we hear loudest are often not our own. They are the voices of parents, or peers who think they know us and what’s best for us. They have pinned THEIR dreams on us. To the point where we can’t even remember our own.

And without realizing it, we find ourselves living someone else’s life.

It happens to the best of us. Then when asked what WE want, we simply don’t remember. We’ve spent so much time listening to and trying to please other people.

That’s when we find:

– The law student who’s miserable, but most of the people in her family are lawyers, so she was guided to follow in their footsteps…
– The talented musician who hasn’t played in years because people told him “It’s a ‘waste of time’”…
– The person who is in a “good, steady job”, yet yearns to be an entrepreneur…

These people are sacrificing their entire lives just to conform to other people’s ideas. It’s a tragedy.

It’s a good thing I didn’t let other people’s views of me define who I was.

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You can not make lemonade with sugar alone.

No test…no testimony. You can not make lemonade with sugar alone…you must have some sour lemons. You can not learn good horsemanship by riding a tame horse. The harder the battle, the sweeter the victory.

Regardless of what happens to you, never say you are having a bad day…say you are having a character building day.

All the things that you are going through are building your character. You are being shaped and designed for your greatness.
We sometimes fall down but the real progress begin when we standup and carry on.. And come up with new ideas ..

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We at a greater extant behave, thing, react because of some previous experience we have had.

One of the things I know about life, is that it’s always changing. Sometimes you are up, sometimes you are down. Sometimes things go real well, and sometimes they don’t. Sometimes you are happy, and sometimes you are sad. Now that’s that thing called “LIFE”.
And when we begin to understand and know that and accepting that reality that we will never ever have things at one level all the time, that you are going to have some ups and downs. But during those down moments, that’s where the growth takes place. That’s where the work is because everyone can feel good when they have good health, when their bills are paid, when they have good relationships, anyone can have a larger vision then. But the really challenge of growth mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically, comes when you knocked down. Someone said that adversity introduces a man to himself.
When you are facing a challenge I want you to evaluate where you are and access yourself plus the situation. Find out what brought you there. What role did you play and what did you learn from it? Are you learning something from it? Or are you doing it again and again and again!!
Somebody said that insanity is doing the same thing in the same way expecting a different outcome.
How do we get stuck is some situation? My best friend went into a divorce he had a wife who did not love him as much he loved her. This was his first true love and he was a very religious man who never believed in divorce. He made a mistake and he paid his mistake with a lot of pain and tears and he reached a point where he knew he would have gotten a divorce. But he was stuck in something called revenge. He said “she made me so miserable; I am going to pay her back!” he was stuck and he stayed there longer than he should have stayed because it begun to affect him psychologically.
And eventually after he got a divorce, he took that same attitude to other relationships looking for something to go wrong. He did not want to risk the pain again. He was going in relationship trying to avoid pain and doing that, he was always trying to find something wrong with the person. Because there are no perfect people if you look for it, you will always find it. The man was stuck in revenge.
Another man I knew worked on a job and he loved the company very much and he expected to retire from there. One day they called him in the office asking him for his identification and the security man walked to his desk and told him he was fired and he had to leave then. He was devastated. And if you came anywhere near him he would tell you his story. Even when he got a new job he would tell anybody who would listen how they fired him unjustly and he always ended “it wasn’t fair!”
Ladies and genital men, life isn’t fair. Life is just is… it’s not fair that cows eat grass and they do!
Let me also share with you this story: there was a man people called him chicken man. He had a feather on his hat, he had a toy chicken on top of his car, and he would drive around town bricking his lights around town blowing his horn too. When he got out of his car he would walk down town with two little baby dolls and a picture of a woman. When every time you would come near him, you would hear him making a sound of a chicken. People used to laugh at him but no one knew chicken mans story.
Chicken man woke up one morning and his house was on fire. He panicked and jumped out of the house through the window quickly. Only to get outside, he heard his children and wife screaming for help. He ran back to the door to save them but the frame was too hot. He tried to get in but he couldn’t he was desperate frantic. Pretty soon the cry stopped. They perished in fire.
His brother in-law came he found out that the sister and nieces died in the fire and he picked up chicken man and started beating him “you chicken why dint you save my sister? Why! You are chicken! You are chicken” when people pulled him away from chicken man, they picked him up and asked him “are you alright?!” And chicken man looked at them and started making a sound of a chicken. He never ever overcame that tragedy. He was stuck in that experience.
Chicken man allowed his tragedy to destroy his life. All of us have experienced some tragedies and we will. But you can leave it to destroy your life or build upon it. You can permit it to hold you down or you can decide that: “I am going not to let that happen to me! I am bigger than this”
I don’t care how good you are, I don’t care how talented you are, I don’t care how much you work on yourself, there is a time when thing are not going to be right. That time when anything that can happen will happen and that’s life, you have to deal with it.
I suggest to you that when if you are facing a challenge, don’t stop. Stay busy and work your plan. Continue to do that thing that you know that work for you after you have evaluated yourself from the situation. Continue to move and stay busy!
You can find somebody you can help so that you can forget you for the moment. It’s important to help other people because what you give in life is what you get.