Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.

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Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.

Stop trying to change the people you love and change yourself! Stop trying to change people who take your money but will not take your advice. You will only drain your own mental, spiritual, emotional and financial reserves. The truth is…people change when they are sick and tired of being sick and tired or hit rock bottom.

If you are dealing with addiction or irresponsible behavior from grown adults ~ protect your wallet and your mind. It does not mean you do not love them. Your attempts to help may only delay what is inevitable. Allow them to take the journey they have chosen for themselves. Choose to let go of the guilt and be at peace. You may require counseling or emotional support to stop being an enabler. If necessary, give yourself some distance so that you can stop being used or manipulated because they know that you care and you love them. You have the right to enjoy a guilt-free, happy and productive life. Commit yourself to changing the only person you really can.
Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve. If you have to choose between being kind and being right, choose being kind and you will always be right.

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You can never fly unless you give up the things that weigh you down.

You can never fly unless you give up the things that weigh you down. When someone leaves your life, it doesn’t mean you are a bad person or that’s the end of your life! It means their part in your life is finished. Their exit creates room for new opportunities and new entries in your life. When one door closes another certainly opens. I want you to know that: how far you have come is small compared to how far you can go. You are the captain of your ship and the master of your fate. Live your life on your own terms as opposed to the definitions of others.

There are some things, some people, some attitudes, and some feelings that you have experienced that you just need to let go ~ because they are preventing you from living your greatest life! You are in charge. Exercise your power by consciously looking and asking the question…”How is this serving me by holding on to this attitude, anger, lack of forgiveness, grudge, or negative emotion?” Stop allowing these things to rob you of your peace of mind, happiness and well-being.

Let it go so that you can grow and prosper. Make the decision to release anything that is unbecoming of you, and that does not represent your highest and best thinking. This is easier said than done. It requires work, becoming deliberate and consciously aware of your feelings. No person or thing is worth sacrificing being joyfully enthusiastic about your life and health. Look for many ways to increase laughter, joy and love in your daily experience.

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Preparing young people to lead.

For you young people out there, who are leaders, but no one’s handed you the baton yet, the only way to lead is to do it with how you see the world. And the only way to know how you see the world is for you to tell your perspective of it—you have to tell your personal story. We’ll learn what your vision of the world is, based on how personal you are with your story.

The more personal you are, the more trust you’ll gain and the more people will follow you. Your leadership muscles are all based on your personal story. That is your connective tissue. We’re looking at you to lead. You may not know that but we are. We don’t know how to follow you, though, unless you allow us to. The only way to do that is to share your story and your vision.

That’s the connective tissue we’re looking for—we’ll latch on and follow for however long you’ll have us, as long as you can keep us interested and keep the vision personal to you. The more you do that, the more we’ll follow.

When you tell your story, your audience is watching and looking to hear what your story is so they can locate themselves inside of your story. People are looking to find themselves inside of your story. The minute that happens, they follow you. The more personal your story is, the more people will want to latch onto you.

If you see the world in a certain way and tell people, “I was raised this way. My grandfather would sit me on his lap by the fireplace and say, ‘Son (or daughter), this is who we are, this who are family is, this is how I see the world’.”

If you start to share that story of grandpa, people start connecting to their own grandpa. In return, they follow you. Your personal story is the key to the kingdom, is the key to leadership. Even if you’re young, you still have a story; you still have a perception of what’s out there.

The only way for you to let those people know how to follow you is through your personal story. So get out there and discover what that story is and start to share it—that way people can follow you.

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Your dreams will never give you wrong directions or instructions.

Your dreams will never give you wrong directions or instructions, be keen, alert and observant to them.You can’ t make it is only apparently true but actually false.Let failure just be a discomfort but never a real pain.Believe that you can improve your status, your position, your education and so on.Today you can do something different.Today you can change your life.Today you can change lives.

It is important to realize Your dream may not have anything to do with someone else. It is YOUR dream. Secondly, if your dream is to accomplish something different, you must walk, talk and move differently, sometimes alone. A dream and vision can pull you out of whatever situation you find yourself in! No matter how low a person could get, by being able to stand up and thrive from perilous situations it really shows the true power of the human spirit! Anythings possible if you just think this way.

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Life is a process of releasing and surrendering. Release that which no longer serves you. Decide to run away from the old you. Say goodbye to friendships, places, conversations, and behaviors that keep you from living your true purpose and greatness.

Know that there is something better for you ahead. Do not make someone a priority who has made you an option. Who can you count on, and who must you count out? Choose to count on you!

Nurture with yourself a GROWTH MINDSET that says”There is more for me”,more of life,move love,more to learn,more to experience and achieve.That is a PLACE to DISCOVER the strength and power to CREATE the new You!The Bigger You Awaits You!