Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.

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Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.

Stop trying to change the people you love and change yourself! Stop trying to change people who take your money but will not take your advice. You will only drain your own mental, spiritual, emotional and financial reserves. The truth is…people change when they are sick and tired of being sick and tired or hit rock bottom.

If you are dealing with addiction or irresponsible behavior from grown adults ~ protect your wallet and your mind. It does not mean you do not love them. Your attempts to help may only delay what is inevitable. Allow them to take the journey they have chosen for themselves. Choose to let go of the guilt and be at peace. You may require counseling or emotional support to stop being an enabler. If necessary, give yourself some distance so that you can stop being used or manipulated because they know that you care and you love them. You have the right to enjoy a guilt-free, happy and productive life. Commit yourself to changing the only person you really can.
Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve. If you have to choose between being kind and being right, choose being kind and you will always be right.

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Arm yourself with courage today to face the challenges in your life

Arm yourself with courage today to face the challenges in your life. You will not defeat everything that you face, but nothing is defeated until it is faced. Do not let the feelings of fear, uncertainty and discomfort stop you from making tough decisions.

Get out of bed. Turn off the television. Stop wasting time listening to negative conversations, including your own. Limit your distractions. Cancel your pity party. Pull yourself together and take total ownership for everything in your life. Do not waste your energy or take up space in your mind by blaming others or expecting them to rescue you. You are your knight in shining armor. You hold the key to unlocking your new future.

It does not matter how many times you have been knocked down. What matters most is that you continue to get back up. It is time to get it on and move your life forward by taking your power back. Place all bets on you and get busy! You deserve more…much, much more!
Why let people’s opinion control your choice, why your decision come second ?, why living a life as if it has been borrowed to you.

For how long are you still going to remain on a low level, you have hands and legs that need to be used, stand up from where you are boost yourself with spiritual rhythm, listen to motivational song, learn to pursuit your Dream and goals, create strategy and plans on how to get close to your Dreams because no one can make it a reality apart from you.

Face your fear, decide that you will live a life of your will, 2016 wasn’t given to everyone, you are life today because you are special and chosen among millions sperms for one purpose and that is to live your own story.
Tomorrow start today so take charge and take personal responsibility for your action.

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Preparing young people to lead.

For you young people out there, who are leaders, but no one’s handed you the baton yet, the only way to lead is to do it with how you see the world. And the only way to know how you see the world is for you to tell your perspective of it—you have to tell your personal story. We’ll learn what your vision of the world is, based on how personal you are with your story.

The more personal you are, the more trust you’ll gain and the more people will follow you. Your leadership muscles are all based on your personal story. That is your connective tissue. We’re looking at you to lead. You may not know that but we are. We don’t know how to follow you, though, unless you allow us to. The only way to do that is to share your story and your vision.

That’s the connective tissue we’re looking for—we’ll latch on and follow for however long you’ll have us, as long as you can keep us interested and keep the vision personal to you. The more you do that, the more we’ll follow.

When you tell your story, your audience is watching and looking to hear what your story is so they can locate themselves inside of your story. People are looking to find themselves inside of your story. The minute that happens, they follow you. The more personal your story is, the more people will want to latch onto you.

If you see the world in a certain way and tell people, “I was raised this way. My grandfather would sit me on his lap by the fireplace and say, ‘Son (or daughter), this is who we are, this who are family is, this is how I see the world’.”

If you start to share that story of grandpa, people start connecting to their own grandpa. In return, they follow you. Your personal story is the key to the kingdom, is the key to leadership. Even if you’re young, you still have a story; you still have a perception of what’s out there.

The only way for you to let those people know how to follow you is through your personal story. So get out there and discover what that story is and start to share it—that way people can follow you.

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Where you are is a very good place to be

 If you think where you are in life now is the wrong place to be, then I am here to let you know that it isn’t. It’s the right place to be. Remember the story of Joseph in the Bible.
He was left in a pit, a wrong place to be, right? No. it was the right place to be. He was imprisoned, a wrong place to be once gain, right? No. it was the right place to be because from there he became a prime minister.
my message is simply this, you have the power to turn things around in your life. That situation or condition is a wake-up call to you. That problem or challenge is a test of your faith and character.
Remember, it’s not where you are coming from, neither is it where you are, rather, it is where you are going.
Look, things may look gloomy now but trust that it will bloom tomorrow.  stay strong so you can experience it with joy.

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The afternoon always understands what the morning never even suspected.

Everyone tells a story about themselves inside their own head. Every day.  All the time. YOU are telling yourself a story right now!

And this story is simply a collection of beliefs that ultimately makes you what you are – it lays the foundation for every action you take or don’t take in life.  In essence, you build yourself out of this story, one day at a time.

For a while, everything aligns just fine, or so it seems, and life is good.

But then, at some point, perhaps sometime in your thirties, forties or fifties, you get slapped with a harsh reality that doesn’t even slightly align with the story you’ve been telling yourself.  And it hurts!  As you struggle to cope with the pain you’re feeling, you are slapped again and again with similar realities.  It goes on like this until you realize that the story you’ve been telling yourself and holding on to all these years is the primary source of your pain, because the beliefs that support the story are utterly and hopelessly false.

It isn’t easy, but you have to accept it.  You have to seriously sit down with yourself and come to grips with the reality that you were wrong about it all along.  What you believed to be true was just an illusion built on false beliefs – a story – that never really was what you thought it was.

This is your awakening!

Although it hurts in the beginning, it’s a beautiful thing in the long run.

As time passes, awareness gradually becomes the new foundation of your journey.